“I think I’m scared if I go back, I’ll realize that I haven’t changed at all.”
It’s the highly anticipated Nancy arc. In this episode, we learn more about Nancy Hennessy, where she came from, her love for Robert and her friends, just how desperate she was to fit into a world that looked down on her, and the childhood trauma that shaped her.
Let’s break down episode four: Nancy.
A Building Sense of Dread
Throughout this entire chapter, there’s an off-kilter sense about Nancy and how she navigates her privileged life. We get a peek into Robert and Nancy’s relationship in the beginning, how warm and affectionate they are with each other. Fast forward to Nancy’s final New Year’s party: Robert’s alcoholism and financial worries crowd out any intimacy they may have once shared.
The contrast between them grows ever more apparent as the minutes tick by. Nancy grew up essentially “white trash” versus Robert’s far-reaching old money. Nancy’s familial violence was “overt,” as she called it, whereas Robert’s family’s way of violence was in passive aggression and throwing their money around.
We see this tension play out during Nancy’s annual party. While she is busy playing the perfect hostess, even trying to set up Eleanor with one of Robert’s friends, the foundations are cracking. Robert’s drinking problem is becoming impossible to ignore, and his sister, the perpetually rude Kit, hovers like a vulture, ready with insults and withering stares.
No Family Is Perfect
The biggest catalysts of the episode were Nancy’s separate conversations with Kit and Robert’s father, R.L. Hennessey. After witnessing secret meetings and overhearing concerning things about money, Nancy wants answers.
Kit accuses Nancy of being entirely “transactional,” a word that triggers a series of haunting flashbacks. When R.L. coldly informs Nancy there won’t be a party next year, she goes snooping. What she finds is worse than a budget cut: Robert has been emailing lawyers about divorce and separation of assets. The security she she buried her real self for is about to vanish.
Over the course of the episode, we learn the dark truth of Nancy’s upbringing: her mother’s boyfriend was sexually abusing her, and Nancy would accept money and ballet supplies from him after he touched or kissed her. This “transaction” was a way to survive, but it’s a trauma that clearly dictates how she navigates her high-society life now. She trades her grace and labor for Robert’s status, but even that is being threatened.
Meanwhile Nancy’s relationship with Cora is laid wide open and it’s almost a cliché: mother and daughter’s relationship is strained to the point of snapping. Cora has no interest in her mother’s curated world, refuses to attend her party, and triggers Nancy by showing up in what her mother calls a “white trash” outfit. When Cora calls her mother “fake,” their tension finally breaks. Nancy slaps her daughter and flees, immediately spiraling into a memory of her own mother.
Through this we learn the story behind the scar on Nancy’s shoulder. In a harrowing flashback, teenage Nancy’s drunk mother, wailing about knowing about her boyfriend abusing her daughter, blamed her own child, and purposely drove her car into a wall. Nancy ended up outside of the car with a giant piece of windshield glass in her shoulder. Ouch. Lifelong trauma. Double ouch.
Back in the present, Nancy is terrified that by hitting Cora, she has become her mother. While Eleanor and Mary (the ever-reliable friend who always rescues the group despite being the least well-off) rush to comfort her, the damage at home is done. Robert rebuffs Nancy’s attempt to apologize to Cora, only adding to Nancy’s continued isolation from her own family.
Who The Hell Is David?
Finally we get a rather clever misdirect from the show as we start to learn who “David” actually is. Throughout the party, Nancy interacts with a bartender named David; they have flirty banter leading the audience to believe this is the lover Nancy tells El about later on. He eventually tries to give her his number, which she rejects. However, the final scene drops a massive breadcrumb regarding Nancy’s relationship.
During a conversation with Howard (Mary’s husband), Nancy mentions that the ballet director Phil (played by Cheyenne Jackson) she volunteers with still calls her “Louise.” More importantly, the director thought Howard was David the bartender because they are both bald. The implication? David might not be who we thought he was. They both say goodbye to each other by calling each other the “wrong” names: Louise and David. Is Howard the fabled David? What a wild reveal that leads to so many more questions.
Final Thoughts
After being rocked by revelations and hurting her own daughter, Nancy slips back into old bad habits by looking up her abusive stepfather on Instagram. It’s the kind of train wreck you can see coming from a mile away, one that could’ve been prevented by Robert and Nancy simply having a conversation. But because they’ve grown so far apart, Nancy has turned back into that scared little girl she used to be.
This episode was haunting and brilliantly done to slowly reveal twists and deftly peel back the Hennessy layers that obfuscate the truth. With another Nancy-centric episode coming up next in episode five, we’ll be diving headfirst into some juicy drama.
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